"If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever."- The Crow
Everything is uncertain in life but death is certain. That is the one thing you can't control in life. God give lives and He take them away too. When a human being or living thing is born, it is one of the joyous moment in life. People laugh, smile and shed happy tears but when one dies especially our loved one, even the sunniest day turns pitch black. Everybody wishes to die before their loved ones because they are unwilling to lose and bury someone they deeply love and care but reality is you will never know who dies first or who dies later. You can never tell the exact date, day and time you will leave this world. No one can confidently say that he will be living tomorrow either.
Losing someone is the hardest thing in life. No matter how close or distant a person is with or from you, when they die, the sense of loss is there. All the memories and images of that person will come flooding by the minute you realize that he/she is gone forever. Funny how human beings only appreciate someone or something when they lose them. All the things they said or done suddenly start to matter.
Wise man says don't mourn for the death of your loved ones instead cherish the memories and time you spent with them. Celebrate the lives they lived not contemplate on their departures. No matter how hard it is to practice because talk is cheap, that is the only way to not 'die' with your loved ones. Life still has to go on... However, when a person dies, it doesn't necessarily mean he/she is gone forever. If you never stop loving them and always cherish them in your heart and soul, they will forever live and be with you in your life. So, all I can say is give all your love to those you love and those who love you. Treat them with utmost love and respect and try to spend a little of your time just for the people surrounding you no matter who they are because you will never know when is the last time you will ever meet them again.
Also, live your life meaningfully and to the fullest because one day your life will flash before your eyes so make sure it is worth watching.
''Every man dies- Not every man really lives''- William Ross Wallace
This song is just so sad and it means a lot to me So, if I die young, put me in a beautiful dress, lay me down on a bed of daisies, roses and other beautiful flowers and send me away with the words of a love song. Let my departure be the celebration of the life I've lived and let it be a joyous and memorable one. No wailing and crying please.
Love,
ML
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